First kiss dates back 21M years

(bbc.com)

38 points | by 1659447091 4 days ago

4 comments

  • cheque 4 hours ago
    I assume kissing comes from a parent chewing up food and then transferring it to the baby.

    This is innate “caring” behavior.

    Similarly, mammary glands are for providing milk/nutrition.

    These get associated with primal needs and therefore the amygdala, and so is associated with strong emotion.

    • weregiraffe 2 hours ago
      Or, kissing is just a subset of skin to skin touching, using sensitive body parts. Not so different from holding hands.
      • rapnie 4 minutes ago
        Yes, there's also the "Eskimo kiss" in Inuit culture. Rubbing noses together, as a climate adjusted habit. From Wikipedia:

        > Rather, it is a non-erotic but intimate greeting used by people who, when they meet outside, often have little except their nose and eyes exposed.

        https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eskimo_kiss

      • jimkleiber 2 hours ago
        Holding hands may also be from when babies latch on and don't let go because of the necessity of holding on to the parent. My friend's 2 year old grabbed my hand recently and it reminded me of their iron grip.
        • weregiraffe 1 hour ago
          And choking fetish naturally stems from the desire to strangle an annoying baby.

          /s

    • weatherlite 4 hours ago
      Chew your meat for you, pass it back and forth In a passionate kiss from my mouth to yours I like you
      • doubled112 3 hours ago
        What a terrible day to have basic literacy skills and an imagination.
        • jswelker 3 hours ago
          The song is 34 years old my friend.
          • fluoridation 3 hours ago
            It was a terrible day 34 years ago.
        • ls-a 1 hour ago
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          • nozzlegear 1 hour ago
            You think your ancestors were monkeys.

            I think my ancestors were something like monkeys.

            We are not the same.

            • ls-a 1 hour ago
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              • nozzlegear 1 hour ago
                > you think your ancestors are whatever researchers tell you they are

                Actually it was revealed to me in a dream.

                • ls-a 47 minutes ago
                  you misinterpret your dreams
  • jvanderbot 4 hours ago
    Kissing is so weird. You can make up a thousand just-so stories. You can imagine it meant totally different things through time and across cultures.

    For me it just seems like yet another culturally-defined signal of intimacy. Like showing ankles or chests or saying this or that. Seems to me trying to make everything some hard wired evolutionary thing is a dead end.

    • omnicognate 4 hours ago
      Except that as the article says many animals kiss, not just humans.
      • dachris 3 hours ago
        Really funny on a farm when you see young calves "kissing" i.e. stick their noses/mouths together and lick each other's noses.
  • ufko_org 4 hours ago
    OK, now date the last one :)
    • nozzlegear 4 hours ago
      I just smooched my wife and reset the timer.
  • begueradj 5 hours ago
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    • bl0rg 5 hours ago
      I'd rather kiss my dog, whom I love, over a random person that I have little in common with. Is that somehow weird to you?
      • lowq 4 hours ago
        The internet is an amazing place.
      • begueradj 4 hours ago
        By kiss, I mean empathy.

        People having empathy for animals but not to humans who are different from them.

        Humans have 46 chromosomes. Dogs have 78.